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  • Writer's pictureCarolina de Arriba

Self-care based on your Enneagram type


What is an Enneagram? The Enneagram is a system of personality typing that describes patterns in how people interpret the world and manage their emotions. The Enneagram describes nine different personality types and maps each of these types on a nine-pointed diagram which helps to illustrate how the types relate to one another.

Want to learn more about the Enneagram? Find out more here.


Curious about what type you are? To find your Enneagram type, take this free test.


A couple of months ago I shared my thoughts on self-care and the importance to add self-care on our every day activities.


Now that you know your Enneagram type, let's combine the two and let's figure out what self-care activities work best for you



Enneagram Type One:

THE PERFECTIONIST: Ones place a lot of emphasis on following the rules and doing things correctly. Read more about Ones.

Their ideal self care activity is a creative, carefree flow, like for example:

  • Investing time on a creative hobbie

  • Writing poetry

  • Writing in a gratitude journal

  • Finding and testing new recipes

  • Reading & journaling

  • Yoga

  • Addressing emotional needs in whatever way works for them

  • Stay hydrated

  • Therapy 


Enneagram Type Two:

THE GIVER: Twos want to be liked and find ways that they can be helpful to others so that they can belong. Read more about Twos.

Their ideal self care activity is intentional time alone or with others. Some ideas for you:

  • Spa day

  • Crying it out

  • Coffee dates

  • Journaling and self reflection

  • Lots of hugs!

  • Go on a morning walk

  • Go shopping for someone special in your life



Enneagram Type Three:

THE ACHIEVER: Threes want to be successful and admired by other people, and are very conscious of their public image. Read more about Threes.

Their ideal self care activities could be:

  • Exercising

  • Staying busy

  • Planning & scheduling

  • Listening to a podcast

  • Reading a personal development book

  • Taking an online class

  • Meditation

  • Listening to music

  • Take a break from social media

  • Plan your next goal



Enneagram Type Four:

THE INDIVIDUALIST: Fours want to be unique and to experience deep, authentic emotions. Read more about Fours.

Their ideal self care activities could be:

  • Being creative

  • Writing poetry

  • Writing in a gratitude journal

  • Finding and testing new recipes

  • Reading and journaling

  • Yoga

  • Addressing emotional needs in whatever way works for them

  • Stay hydrated

  • Therapy 


Enneagram Type Five:

THE INVESTIGATOR: Fives seek understanding and knowledge, and are more comfortable with data than other people. Read more about Fives.

Their ideal self care activities could be:

  • Ordering in food

  • Going on a walk

  • Watching a documentary

  • Starting off the day with a coffee

  • Slowing down and taking a break from their busy schedule

  • Spending time alone 

  • Meditation 

  • Take online classes to nourish your mind


Enneagram Type Six:

THE SKEPTIC: Sixes are preoccupied with security, seek safety, and like to be prepared for problems. Read more about Sixes.

Their ideal self care activities could be: 

  • Cozying up with a cup of tea

  • Clearing up their schedule and taking a day off 

  • Naps and snuggles with a pet or loved one

  • Empowering workout

  • Watching their favorite movie

  • Reading a good book

  • Meditate

  • Keep a tidy living space


Enneagram Type Seven:

THE ENTHUSIAST: Sevens want to have as much fun and adventure as possible and are easily bored. Read more about Sevens.

Their ideal self care activities could be:

  • Taking a road trip

  • Long phone calls or chats with a loved one

  • Creating a routine

  • Going to a party

  • Going to a farmer’s market

  • Working on a fun project

  • Going to a coffee shop

  • Spend time outside 


Enneagram Type Eight:

THE CHALLENGER: Eights see themselves as strong and powerful and seek to stand up for what they believe in. Read more about Eights.

Their ideal self care activities could be:

  • Working out at home

  • Taking a warm bath (epsom salts are a plus!)

  • Going on a hike

  • Having dinner with a friend

  • Getting a massage

  • Cozying up with a good book

  • Go for a run or bike ride

  • Meditate 


Enneagram Type Nine:

THE PEACEMAKER: Nines like to go with the flow and let the people around them set the agenda. Read more about Nines.

Their ideal self care activities could be:

  • Surrounding themselves with candles, blankets, and their pets 

  • Light exercise

  • Feeling unproductive

  • Quiet time with a book, coffee or tea

  • Taking a warm bath

  • Getting some fresh air + spending time in nature



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